GIFTED CHILDRENS RESOURCE SITEWelcome to the brand new baby website for SFRM which is attempting to provide a preliminary resource for inquiries about having been "blessed" with a gifted child. Since this website is linked from the home page of SFRM it is open to the general public...which means that if you are a non Mensa parent of a gifted child, you are most welcome. Hopefully this site will provide you with some preliminary reading. I am simply the librarian and can be reached at dbross@pacbell.net. We will be adding material as fast as we can. There is a tremenous amount of material available through the national organization of Mensa and we will be culling some of it for viewing here but please feel free to contact either myself or Melody Lowman who is our local Gifted Childrens coordinator and a professional psychologist dealing specifically in the area of gifted children. She can be reached at 415-346-9186 Following is our first reprinted article. We will be adding articles as fast as my little fingers can get them in there...but this is the first article that I ran across and is what prompted me to do this website...it seemed to me a sorely needed thing. TWIG BENDING: MEETING THE NEEDS By Rosemary Timoney from the 8/91 Browbeat Two stimuli provoked this month's topic. The recent phone call from a justifiably dismayed parent of an exceptionally gifted five year old, and the best discussion in a recently completed course on the Nature of the Gifted Child. Coincidentally, both led to the pros and cons of accelerated versus enrichment as a better means of meeting the needs of the highly gifted child. It is only fair to acknowledge at the outset that the controversy is both old and heated, and it is definitely unresolved. Both strategies attempt to accommodate the high abilities and individual needs of gifted children, and both lead, in the words of the experts, to "depth, breadth, and the development of creativity and other high-level thinking skills." The experts do, however, tend to divide into camps. Acceleration advocates argue, for example, that "most of the supplemental procedures called "enrichment" and given overly glamourous titles are, even at best, potentially dangerous if not accompanied or followed by acceleration...in subject matter and/or grade" (Julian Stanley, 1978). Stanley and Benlow (1986) referred to kinds of enrichment as "busy work and irrelevant." Harsh judgment, though not entirely unfounded. On the other side of the argument, Frost (For "Enrichment," 1981) States that enrichment"...Implies a supplementation of the depth, breadth, or intensity of content and process as appropriate to the students' abilities and needs...(and is the prevailing practice because)...of the diversity in meeting student needs." Typical modes of acceleration are, early admission to kindergarten or first grade, grade-skipping, subject-skipping, early admission to junior or senior high school and/or college, credit by examination (CLEP), college courses in high school (AP), dual enrollment, correspondence courses, and telescoped programs (e.g., the University of Miami's six-year college/medical program). The best known examples of accelerating very bright secondary students are the talent-search programs such as those at Johns Hopkins and Duke with more proliferating in the glow of their success. Obviously or not, there are postive and negative ramifications of each choice. The postiives are the joy of academic challenge, the flexing of intellectual "muscle" and the potential pleasure of meeting like minds. The concomitant problems are the lack of social and emotional peers and the sense of isolation that is almost inevitable if one is a 12 year old college freshman or the only 9th grader in Calculus BC. As a consequence, the foregoing options, with the exception of AP, which is becoming so popular an option that isolation is no problem, are appropriate for only a very select few. Enrichment, on the other hand, is almost universally available, because there are few social and emotional drawbacks, but, inevitably, enrichment will fall short of the intellectual needs of the few. As the twig-bender said when reacting to Little Man Tate, Jodie Foster's film on the "severely gifted" child which is still must viewing for anyone involved with such a child, there are no easy answers or simple choices here, but the best possible individual choices cannot be denied. Neither can the consequences of avoiding those choices. Gifted Children's Coordinator Page The genesis of this column was a question from a young parent about the
value of various methods and gadgets purporting to make babies smarter,
particularly those referring to the Mozart theory. A recent Newsweek article
summarizing research on babies and music made me decide this was a good
time to turn that question into an essay. As usual, it was a somewhat
rambling reply, which turned into a wide-ranging (some might say rambling)
essay. The best book I know of on the subject of infant brain development
is Magic Trees of the Mind by Marian Diamond and it goes into much more
detail than I can do in a short essay, even one of my long and rambling
ones. Dr.Diamond, as a young woman, was the scientist who did the seminal
work on growth of rats' brains. At the same time, she was first a mother,
then a grandmother, and a volunteer in children's My own knowledge of research is more oriented to behavioral studies than
laboratory studies, but the conclusions come out Further supporting evidence comes from Harlow's famous experiment with monkeys raised without mothers, monkeys who came out crazy (to use a lay term that basically sums it up) and unable to form normal monkey relationships, mate, or parent. Fortunately, most sober parents have more sense than to stick with Skinner's uncomfortable ideas for long, although addicts or otherwise disconnected parents sometimes manage similar results by accident. I sometimes see books advocating strict methodologies that do not refer to Skinner but seem to incorporate a lot of his ideas. Watch out for those. Second, the single most influential factor is to talk with the baby a
lot including traditional baby games and a lot of talk Along with talking goes reading to them a lot. Most people think of reading
when the child get to pre-school age, but I believe (based on observation,
I have not seen any scientific studies) that there is an earlier critical
period for reading, maybe around 3-6 months. Children I have known who
were read to that early seem to have a lifelong love of reading. If nothing
else, it is at least more holding and talking to baby which has been proven
valuable. You may find it helpful to point to the words as you say them,
or to alternately point to the word and In any case, deliberately trying to teach them to read does not seem to work very well. They get stubborn at anything they perceive as even very subtle pressure and even children who have taught themselves to read as toddlers usually refuse to admit it when they realize that other toddlers cannot read - they are also becoming socially aware at this age. You may find it helpful to learn the signs that a baby is feeling pressured, usually a refusal to make eye contact, with more squirming - crying does not come until you have ignored his earlier warning that he doesn't like it. You would be surprised at how many parents persist in pushing an activity even after the child has shown clearly to a knowledgeable observer that he finds it stressful. But they almost never respond this way to simple talking, reading, or listening to music, along with cuddling, and as I said, the talking is an activity that scientific research has proven to be valuable. The third critical practice that has solid scientific support is not using baby cages - my derogatory term for playpens, high chairs, walkers, swings, etc. Jerome Brunner, working at Harvard in the sixties, attempted to determine what made the difference between the groups he termed the A students and the C students. He studied their lives at earlier and earlier ages and still found two groups distinct in competence levels until he got back to the toddler period. Between approximately 18 mos. and age 3, the A group babies had been allowed to explore freely, roam freely, and touch or manipulate all sorts of objects freely in a basically childproofed house while the C group had been confined to a play pen, high chair, or other such gadget with a limited selection of officially approved toys to manipulate. I personally refused to own a playpen or any other type of baby restraint - to this day, both my mother and my grown children tease me about that. But the temptation to overuse them is tremendous, because it is easier than either watching carefully as a baby crawls free or babyproofing the house. The easiest way to guard against temptation, for me, was not to own it in the first place. I frequently hear young parents justify the baby swing because "he likes it so much." Would you give him a steady diet of cartoons and chocolate cake because he likes it so much? That the baby likes it does not mean it is a good idea or good for him.
Oddly enough, it is the conscientious parents who try to justify the baby
swing this way. I would tend to be wary of anything that is easier for
you and that you want to justify. On music, as the original question mentioned, there has been a great deal written about that lately. Here, my position seems a little contradictory. Using a lot of music, of all different types, is something I have believed in since my own grad school years when I wanted to do my thesis on this but could not think of any way to frame it as a good experiment. But even though I believe in it, there is very little scientific evidence. I did use a lot of music for my own babies, even though there was no evidence at all back then and it was only my personal theory. The original Mozart experiment was done with college students showing temporary improvements to math scores after listening to Mozart with a theory proposed that maybe better results would be achieved with babies. To date, there have been no studies with babies. It's funny how a whole industry has grown up around such a little bit of substance. The choice of Mozart for the college students was rather arbitrary and the authors of that study believe that any patterned, moderately complex music would have worked. The leading advocate of Mozart for babies says he advocates Mozart because its patterns are also not very complex - frankly, if I had a brain that was not capable of following the complexities of Dixieland jazz, I would not brag about it. As for music such as rock (which, if you listen to the music, not the beat or the words, is usually very simple), I asked my students in a class on advanced employee training techniques to tell me what rock did for them. They always answered it makes them want to exercise, or dance, or other physical activity - which is probably just as important as math, only different. The point I was trying to get them to come up with themselves, because they would really believe it if they figured it out without my saying it, is that all types of music are valuable but different music is valuable for different reasons. Baroque, classical, and some types of jazz seem to stimulate pattern awareness and awareness of mathematical relationships (probably because these types of music have a highly mathematical structure). I believe in listening with babies or playing with them on their first instruments or dancing with them to all types of music, as much as possible, and as much as talking with them and reading with them. There is beginning to be some scientific evidence to support the study
of piano, in particular, and starting piano not later than age 7, perhaps
earlier if the child is socially ready for adult-directed activity. Piano,
specifically piano and not other music instruction, seems to develop an
awareness of patterns, spatial skills, and geometry important to later
math skills, possibly due to the layout of the piano keyboard and how
it relates to the layout of printed music. More recent studies have shown
that starting either piano or string instruments at this young an age
seems to create a thicker and more active corpus callosum, which is the
part of the brain responsible for coordinating movements that require
both hands and also for coordinating both right-brain and left-brain reasoning
styles, and the improved corpus callosum makes permanent brain structures
that speed various types of mental processing and might be interpreted
as making smarter people. Again, this is exactly what my grandmother (who
was my piano teacher) would have told you a hundred years ago based on
her experience and observation rather than scientific brain studies. And
probably old J.S. Bach, father of twenty children, To get back to the original question, which was how to evaluate theories or gadgets, I would suggest asking yourself the following questions: Does it actually limit the baby, while claiming to stimulate (excessive structure being a form of limit)? What does the baby actually do, remembering that we all learn by doing? Does it look like fun (fun is actually the best way to learn)? Can I duplicate what this claims to do, by parenting more intensively
but in a more natural way, and without buying I suspect you will find that, in most cases, the answer is not a specific theory or a gadget (although some of the better ones are fun and don't hurt anything if you have the excess money - if it's fun for both you and baby, it's good), but a process of more lifelong, naturally good parenting. If you continue to enjoy your child, best quality parenting will come naturally to you and its good results will come naturally to baby. Patricia Bennett McCormick Children Learn by Example You knew that, didn't you? That's why you mind your manners, budget your money, do your chores, and, most important of all, try not to cuss and yell at the kids when they drop your favorite vase. But what are you teaching them, by example, when it comes to the joy of lifelong learning? Of course, you're smart or you wouldn't be reading this. But, tell the truth now. Isn't there a little bit of temptation to rest on your intellectual laurels, get a little bit mentally lazy. After all, you've already qualified for Mensa so you don't have to prove anything any more. Or maybe, instead, you're the type who dutifully works at all the classes needed to get head in your profession. And you do your own homework conscientiously, setting a good example for the children. But what is this teaching them about the joy of learning? Showing them how to love learning for its own sake may be more important than making sure they do their homework. It is tough, during the child-rearing years. There's never enough time or enough money. But learning something new just for the fun of it doesn't have to be a big deal or expensive. And the benefits are far-reaching for both you and your children. You renew yourself and you teach them something important. So maybe take up piano lessons yourself, instead of making your children
do it because you always wanted to play the piano. Or take up enthusiastically
reading French cooking magazines so you can improve your French and try
out some great recipes, Excuse me, now. I don't always practice what I preach, when it comes to setting a good example or anything else. One of the cats has brought a mouse in and I have to go have hysterics until my big, brave, biologist daughter comes home to deal with the problem. Field biologists have to be able find great intellectual joy in dealing with all sorts of disgusting wildlife, you know. I don't think she learned that part from my example. In the meantime, y'all can think about what I say and not about what I do. Beethoven Was an Abused Child -- We frequently see public service commercials holding Ludwig van Beethoven
up as a model of gifted achievement and the product of a good teacher.
What the authors of these commercial scripts don't tell us and apparently
don't know is that Beethoven's primary teacher was his father and that
Ludwig van Beethoven was an abused child. As a young child, he was
made to practice I used the term "gifted and talented" in the subtitle quite deliberately, not as educational jargon. The truth is that, both in educational jargon and in common language, the two terms "gifted" and "talented" mean something different to us. Think about the labels for a minute and decide for yourself what you feel each means. And to complicate an already complicated situation, gifted children are frequently multi-talented. This leads us to the continuing dance of seeking appropriate balance
in young lives. In our desire to see children achieve their potential,
we sometimes overlook how important and difficult a balanced approach
is - and especially so for the multi-talented child. Herewith, are some
bulleted thoughts on how we can try to manage balance. "Gifted" and "Talented" are labels. They are not the whole child. They leave out individuality, personality, character, spiritual growth, emotional growth, physical growth, unconditional love between parent and child, and a whole lot of other important realities that we don't want to lose. We want the child's activities to be developmentally appropriate and
for gifted children, developmental appropriateness is a difficult question.
We all know we can't just rely on the age indicator on the toy box because
gifted children are off-schedule. But they are not evenly and uniformly
off-schedule even in intellectual growth, let alone socially, emotionally,
and physically. I once dealt with a parent who wanted to start a young
girl on piano lessons at junior-high age and then became angry when the
child did not practice enough by the parent's ill-informed standards.
The problem with this situation is that junior-high age is usually the
stage of emotional and social growth that involves exploring every subject
shallowly and joining every social group. Any teacher of private lessons
will tell you that it is hard to keep committed young musicians, dancers,
and artists Another frequently-neglected aspect of planning for a talented child's
growth is that of physical health, separate from physical development.
We are all aware now of carpal tunnel syndrome. Yet many people still
do not seem to realize that overly-ambitious practice schedules for young
children in the arts and in sports may lead to carpal tunnel syndrome
or to even worse forms of crippling. A child's growing body is even
more vulnerable to this sort of damage than an adult?s body Consider the child's total workload. Is the child enrolled in a demanding
schedule of all honors or gifted classes, plus private-lesson arts (I
have known children enrolled by their parents for two different demanding
arts) and a sport and church? All with homework assignments? How many
hours a week of work does this add up to? Eighty or a hundred? Would you
agree to this kind of work schedule as an adult? For no money? Are you,
as a parent, pushing for straight A?s and all-star performance in every
area of endeavor? Many teachers are so excited by teaching a gifted child
that they expect a heavy workload in their subject alone, without considering
that the child may have six other teachers with similar demands, plus
an out-of-school life. This reaction is human and understandable, but
it may create an impossible situation for the child. Consider what you
and your child believe to be most important. Most people consider the
option of lowering their expectations in arts or sports, but also consider
the opposite approach. It might be all right to accept mediocre grades,
even (as shocking as the idea sounds) for an intellectually gifted child,
if the child is pushing for achievement and discipline in something the
family believes In conclusion, I want to introduce myself. I am Patricia McCormick and
I volunteered to be the new gifted children's coordinator for Lonestar
Mensa because it has been a lifelong interest of mine and, with my own
children grown, I now feel I have some time to devote to it. Like all
Mensans, I was a gifted child. I raised two gifted children to adulthood.
In 1974, I earned a Master of Science degree in Family Relations and Child
Development from Oklahoma State University. I have Information and enjoyment for parents, teachers and advocates of gifted
children from American Mensa Ltd. The Gifted Child by Mary Lynn Hallfrom the 3/95 Of Mice and Mensa How were you perceived as a child? If you were labeled as "gifted" when
you went to elementary school, many of your teachers probably responded
to you in one of two ways: either you were quite often left to your own
devices in the classroom because, since you were so bright, Teacher assumed
you could and would handle your work without having to ask questions or
get any assistance "I'm lucky to have him/her in my class this year!"
or, because you did ask questions and your mind often jumped ahead, Teacher
regarded you as a nuisance or a troublemaker, whose agenda it was to be
irritating or to make her/him appear incompetent. Oh no, I've got him/her
in my class this year! Ironically, gifted children, and often gifted
adults, are treated as exceptional not only because of their intellectual
abilities, but because of the assumptions most people make about how gifted
persons must think and feel about themselves. I believe that many people
who do not consider themselves gifted also make assumptions about how
bright people regard "normal people". Here are some misperceptions about
gifted children I've encountered, as a teacher and therapist: Bright children are best left alone, to develop their own resources. Bright children always want to take over so others will think they're smart. Bright children love to set up situations which make them look good at others' expense. Bright children constantly flit from one subject or idea to another, and they don't seem to concentrate long enough on one thing to grasp it. Aside from intellectual ability, is there such a thing as a "gifted" personality? A child adopts most behaviors and traits to adapt and survive in a confusing, constantly changing and sometimes hostile world. People around the gifted child at one and the same time empower and dis-empower her: superhuman expectations are placed on her intellectual functioning and ability to think like an adult and act accordingly; at the same time, she is often set aside as a confusing, disconcerting individual who is best left alone, and as often as not, prefers to be alone. Gifted children may try to provide emotional safety by staying away from uncomfortable situations and persons, thus giving the impression of being aloof or withdrawn, even at home. The potential result: family conflict, emotional or other abuse, and dysfunctional family relationships. To boost self esteem, gifted children can learn these ideas: See yourself as just right the way you are. Superior intelligence is a very special gift. Spend time with people who empower you, make you feel better when you are with them, and leave you with a good feeling about yourself. Understand that having feelings and showing respect toward yourself is as important as being smart. Bright Ideas is a newsletter of American Mensa, Ltd.; the print version is published four times each year, for American Mensa's Gifted Children Coordinators, and is distributed free of charge to them and to selected local and national officers.The selections here are from V. 11 No. 1; the April, 1996 issue. Unless otherwise indicated, all material is copyright 1996 by American Mensa, Ltd. Permission to reprint in other Mensa publications, with credit to author and Bright Ideas, is freely given, unless otherwise noted. Permission to reprint elsewhere must be requested of the Editor in writing; please see the email link indicated.The articles in Bright Ideas come from many sources, but priority is given to articles from Mensa newsletters. Each is credited to the publication in which, to the Editor's best knowledge and findings, it was first printed. Submissions are also welcomed through electronic media.We invite you to spread the word about Bright Ideas; but when you mention us, please specify that Bright Ideas is about gifted children, and for parents, educators and advocates. It is not a publication geared to children; we will be adding content for children as our site evolves.Enjoy! -- Tabitha Boehmer, Editor America: Last Place by John Swick, from the 7/95 Palm-Mensa It seems the time may almost be here when a majority of Americans will agree with this statement - and perhaps even agree to do something about it, even if it costs money.An article in the November 1991 issue of The Atlantic explores the topic in great detail, and gives some revealing facts. For you Mensans who can absorb these in encapsulated form, here are some: 1. Japan has 243 days in a school year. The lowest amount is Belgium with 160 days. The United States standard is next to lowest, 180 days. Three states require under 175 days. 2. Japan has typically 240 days of instruction, the US considerably less than 180 days because of graduation, assemblies, field trips, etc. 3. By ninth grade, over 47% of Japanese students attend an additional five hours a week at privately tutored schools (=40 days). 4. In 1982, the International Association for the Evaluation of Educational Achievement ranked US eighth grade students 10th out of 20 in arithmetic, 12th in algebra, and 16th in geometry. Japan ranked first in all three. 5. In 1988, 71% of US high school students graduated. In Japan, 88% graduated. 6. The average achievement score of the top one percent of US twelfth grade students was lower than any other country where data was available. 7. In 1986, American ten-year-olds ranked 8th, and fourteen-year-olds ranked 14th (among 17,) indicating that they fall farther behind as school progresses. . In one school, a survey found that at the end of the school year, students were on page 126 of a 400 page math book, and only half way through their social studies book. 9. On the International IEA math exam, Japanese students reported that they had been taught how to solve 92% of the problems in algebra. American students reported they were taught how to solve only 54%. 10. American teachers have opposed legislative efforts to lengthen the school day or year. They criticize "treadmill schedules" that cover the curriculum at all costs and do not provide teachers or students adequate time for reflection and planning. (The implied solution - a reduction in teaching time.) 11. Elementary teachers devote four or more weeks in reviewing and re-teaching material forgotten over the summer vacation. 12. American parents are more likely to agree to the statement: "The tests you take can show how much or how little natural ability you have." and have a stronger belief that their children are born with their math abilities. Japanese and Chinese parents are more likely to agree to the statement: "Everybody in your class has the same amount of ability in math" and that any student can be good at mathematics if he works hard enough. Attributing achievement to aptitude rather than study effort undermines the work ethic in the classroom. 13. In a 1980 survey, less than 5% of Chinese mothers were satisfied with their children's progress. Nearly 40% of American mothers were "very satisfied " - at a time when there were 15 American children in the top 100 fifth graders, and 67 in the bottom. 14. Americans disparage attempts to increase study efforts by excusing failure and by diverting attention with claims that Japanese are imitators, steal technology, and use unfair trade tactics. 15. In answer to supposed stress on students, in 1975, the suicide rate of Japanese in the 10 to 24 age brackets were lower than in the US, and by 1984, had decreased further. In 1959, people were opposed to lengthening the school year 67 to 26. 16. In 1969 people were opposed to extending the school year 67 to 26. 17. In 1989, a poll showed people favored a longer school year 48 to 44. Americans do seem to favor before and after school activities to keep children occupied, or perhaps watched, and to have meals and health care. A longer school day and year may be a solution to the failure of the American school system to achieve levels reached in other countries who will be our technological and economic competitors in the very near future. This solution may also solve other social problems in a society where both parents work. The bottom line is that it will require a direction of effort, reorganization of teachers' time, and acceptance of higher taxes. America: Last Place by John Swick, from the 7/95 Palm-Mensa It seems the time may almost be here when a majority of Americans will agree with this statement - and perhaps even agree to do something about it, even if it costs money.An article in the November 1991 issue of The Atlantic explores the topic in great detail, and gives some revealing facts. For you Mensans who can absorb these in encapsulated form, here are some: 1. Japan has 243 days in a school year. The lowest amount is Belgium with 160 days. The United States standard is next to lowest, 180 days. Three states require under 175 days. 2. Japan has typically 240 days of instruction, the US considerably less than 180 days because of graduation, assemblies, field trips, etc. 3. By ninth grade, over 47% of Japanese students attend an additional five hours a week at privately tutored schools (=40 days). 4. In 1982, the International Association for the Evaluation of Educational Achievement ranked US eighth grade students 10th out of 20 in arithmetic, 12th in algebra, and 16th in geometry. Japan ranked first in all three. 5. In 1988, 71% of US high school students graduated. In Japan, 88% graduated. 6. The average achievement score of the top one percent of US twelfth grade students was lower than any other country where data was available. 7. In 1986, American ten-year-olds ranked 8th, and fourteen-year-olds ranked 14th (among 17,) indicating that they fall farther behind as school progresses. . In one school, a survey found that at the end of the school year, students were on page 126 of a 400 page math book, and only half way through their social studies book. 9. On the International IEA math exam, Japanese students reported that they had been taught how to solve 92% of the problems in algebra. American students reported they were taught how to solve only 54%. 10. American teachers have opposed legislative efforts to lengthen the school day or year. They criticize "treadmill schedules" that cover the curriculum at all costs and do not provide teachers or students adequate time for reflection and planning. (The implied solution - a reduction in teaching time.) 11. Elementary teachers devote four or more weeks in reviewing and re-teaching material forgotten over the summer vacation. 12. American parents are more likely to agree to the statement: "The tests you take can show how much or how little natural ability you have." and have a stronger belief that their children are born with their math abilities. Japanese and Chinese parents are more likely to agree to the statement: "Everybody in your class has the same amount of ability in math" and that any student can be good at mathematics if he works hard enough. Attributing achievement to aptitude rather than study effort undermines the work ethic in the classroom. 13. In a 1980 survey, less than 5% of Chinese mothers were satisfied with their children's progress. Nearly 40% of American mothers were "very satisfied " - at a time when there were 15 American children in the top 100 fifth graders, and 67 in the bottom. 14. Americans disparage attempts to increase study efforts by excusing failure and by diverting attention with claims that Japanese are imitators, steal technology, and use unfair trade tactics. 15. In answer to supposed stress on students, in 1975, the suicide rate of Japanese in the 10 to 24 age brackets were lower than in the US, and by 1984, had decreased further. In 1959, people were opposed to lengthening the school year 67 to 26. 16. In 1969 people were opposed to extending the school year 67 to 26. 17. In 1989, a poll showed people favored a longer school year 48 to 44. Americans do seem to favor before and after school activities to keep
children occupied, or perhaps watched, and to have meals and health care.
A longer school day and year may be a solution to the failure of the American
school system to achieve levels reached in other countries who will be
our technological and economic competitors in the very near future. This
solution may also solve other social problems in a society where both
parents work. The bottom line is that it will require a direction of effort,
reorganization of teachers' time, and acceptance of higher taxes. |